Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Finding love! - Overrated?

The only topic that stays fresh and never fade away is people finding love! Women, men, teenage boys and girls....even kids (around 9 or 10 yrs old) are now keen to find their "soul mate"... I mean what's the rush?

My advice:
Before searching for love, appreciate existing love around u! 
Love between a man and woman is not the only form of LOVE!...There's love everywhere when u think about it!

1) Mom's love: She may not utter the words 'I LOVE YOU' all the time, but there's always love in the food she cooks for you and the chores she does for you! Appreciate that!

2) Dad's love: You may see him just as an ATM machine...the notes of money he gives u is not just paper...it's love!...He doesn't give you coz he HAS to!...He gives coz he cares! Appreciate that!

3) Sibling's love: Yeah, we fight!...we fight for the remote control, the wardrobe, which side of the bed we get to sleep in etc...We call each other foul names!..We fight til we physically hurt each other!...but there's always love in every of those bruise! Appreciate that!

4) Friend's love: You may think we are only good for camwhoring and gossiping!...But, we care for each other!... We know when something's wrong... We motivate each other and climb the ladder of success together! Appreciate that!

5) A dog's love: He may not be able to speak in a language u understand... His barks in the middle of the night may annoy you... But, he never fails to make you smile the moment you enter your house! He jumps, licks and wags his tail...even if you left him all alone for the past 2 days!- That's love! Appreciate that!

6) A teacher's love: They scold you...you feel tortured when they give a pile of homework...You especially feel irritated when they complain about you to your parents!... But they only do it for your own good!... coz they care about you! Appreciate that!

7) God's love: He is always there for you! He may give you problems but nothing you can't handle!...He does that only to show you how strong you are!...Because you are his child and he loves you!... You may not be able to see him but you definitely can FEEL him! Appreciate that!

And remember to love YOURSELF! No one knows you better than yourself! If you don't love yourself, who else would?!

So for those of you who keep whining about not having "love" in your life or no one to share your life with!... Just look around you!...There are people just waiting for you accept their love!... Appreciate those around you!... Your true love and soul mate is somewhere out there...It will happen when its supposed to happen!... Meanwhile, take in the love and be happy!

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