Embrace Uniqueness!

People often try to please others by changing the way they talk , the way they appear and trying to someone they are not. Sometimes they try to be like celebrities: Beyonce, Angelina Jolie, Kim Kardashian, Johnny Depp (Yes, it applies to guys too! - dont deny it!). Anyway, the sad part of this is that, in the process, they lose a part of themselves. My question to those people pleasers: 

Is it worthit?! - are their opinions so significant that you are willing to throw a part of u away? - NO!

Is their approval so important in living your life? - live the way you want and enjoy every bit of it... screw the haters!! (If you keep thinking about what others think about you, you will live a life you will regret in future!)

Do you just please people just to fit in? -  Let me tell you something, if you have to change yourself or have to make a tremendous amount of effort to fit in a group, that group is just not for you!... trust me! I have had sooo many groups of friends starting from primary school to university!...some of my so called 'gang' did not even last a year!.. If you feel comfortable being yourself in a group, you are where you're supposed to be!... Be happy and stop trying to fit into a group you most definitely don't belong in - It's like trying to open your car with your house key!

Do you change yourself because you think that having a certain personality or character makes you more cool?

Truth be told, most of the time you are wrong!... People always want to be someone they are not!... Trying to be a duplicate of another person is so NOT COOL!...why would you want to be exactly same as someone else when you can be one of a kind and unique? Everyone is born unique not just physically but also genetically and psychologically (mental strength, broad/narrow minded etc). Embrace your uniqueness! It's there for a reason! 

None of the above convinced you to be yourself ?? Let me try another one:

The opposite sex (or the same sex depends on which way you swing =p) always finds you more attractive if you are an original and not a crappy ole photocopy of celebrities or whoever you may think to be cool! =p

So be original and stay original! ;-)